How many times have you found yourself saying "When I get FILL IN THE BLANK then I'll be happy."

 People tend to put off their happiness for the future. When I get out of school then I'll be happy, when I get a good job, then I’ll be happy, when I get married then I’ll be happy, when I have a kid... but it never ends.

 In fact, it is a trap. Because when you get the object of your desire, there will always be something else in the future.

 If you are always putting your happiness into the future, you will never be happy, because you can only have a feeling in the present moment. You can not feel the future. If you ever want to be happy, you have to do it right now.

This is counter intuitive as we think that we need to fulfill our desires to be happy. But the happiness you get from getting the thing you desire will never last, because desire never ends. There is always something else to desire.

 Happiness is not caused by the fulfillment of desire. You can have a desire, a plan, an intention, and still be happy. Do not hook your happiness onto the events in your life.

The Master Sri Sri Pundit Ravi Shankar said “Unfulfilled desires lead to frustration. Fulfilled desires lead to frustration.” The first of those two sentences is intuitive. We know we get frustrated when our desires go unfulfilled, we experience that every day. The second of the sentences in the quote is radical to the extreme, yet in a way, more true. You think getting that carrot that is in front of you will make you happy, but the feeling of satisfaction is so fleeting, a new desire always takes it’s place, and you are left feeling frustrated and empty.

This does not mean that you should not get your desires filled ever. No, do not resist your desires, do not try and retreat from your own thoughts. If there is something you want, ok, go for it. Give it your 100%. But you need to know that if you get it or not, it is not the key to your happiness.

be happy while you are seeking your desires. Be happy when you achieve them, and be happy when you don’t. The mistake is not having desires, the mistake is not fulfilling desires, the mistake is thinking that you will be happy in the future when your desires are filled. That will not happen. You can’t have a feeling in the future, and you can’t let your happiness depend on your desires. Or maybe you can, but the results are guaranteed. If you think you need to fulfill your desires before you can be happy, you will not have very much happiness in your life.

It seems simple minded to say “just be happy right now.” but that is really the only choice you have if you want to be happy in your life. For no reason, with no cause, just be happy now. Try it. See how you do.

Blessings


You know that you need clarity to move forward in your life. Especially in hard times, life can be a swirling ball of confusion. Living your life and examining you life can be impossible, like trying to lift yourself up by your own shoelaces. When times are tough, you need someone else to lift you up. Sri Sadika left the comforts of home and a life much like yours when he was only 17. He traveled alone to India where he studied the Secrets of the Universe with Masters of traditions that date back to the dawn of time. Over the course of 22 years of intensive study of the Secrets of the Ancients, doors of perception opened to Sri Sadika. These doors are there for all of us, but most of us never get the amazing chance to learn the Secrets that Sri Sadika learned in India. And now, for a limited time, Sri Sadika is offering private Psychic readings to a select group of clients. Below you will be given to book a private appointment with Sri Sadika. Due to the amount of effort that he puts into these appointments, Sri Sadika is only offering 40 appointments. You can also get a Free Psychic Reading.

Learn more about the Spritual philosophy of Sri Sadika and getting a Free Psychic Reading here. 

 
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